Have you ever taken the time to truly embrace and love yourself?
Have you ever experienced the pain of rejection? Or perhaps you’ve felt the weight of shyness, the nagging feeling of not being good enough, or the overwhelming grip of depression and loneliness. It can be incredibly difficult to navigate these emotions and situations. Remember, you are not alone. Many people have faced similar challenges and found the strength to overcome them. If you’re feeling used, neglected, or even abused, it’s important to reach out for support and find the help you need. You deserve to be surrounded by love, respect, and understanding. You have the power to heal and overcome these difficult moments. Stay strong and keep believing in yourself.
Are you struggling with traumatic experiences that have left you feeling shocked and helpless? Have you found yourself losing hope and doubting the possibility of achieving your dreams? How would you describe your current relationship with yourself and those around you?
If yes! This blog is for you! Because in order for you to have a new perspective in life you need to be able to help yourself first or create that what they call BETTER VERSION OF YOURSELF.
You may be able to help yourself through this so that you will know those things that will greatly develop, strengthen, and improve to love yourself. Therefore, a great chance to achieving the success you love to have.
The FIRST thing to do to is LOVE YOURSELF and it is through, IMPROVING YOUR PERSONALITY
Before else, these ideas were taken from, VICTOR J. AMABLE – the author of the book PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT (Learn your way to success)
Now, Let us have a PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT 101 sharing first
According to VICTOR J. AMABLE of the book PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT (LEARN YOUR WAY TO SUCCESS) quoted an authority once said, Personality is:
“Every man is three men: the man he thinks he is, the man others think he is, and the man he really is,”Victor Amable, quoted an author
Why do we need to develop ourselves first whenever we need to face those people that surround us? Because just like Corona Virus, if you are not yet healed and you think you still have a negative virus, within you, then definitely, you still need to stay first in your house until you are healed and when you are okay then you can now go outside and spread a positive virus again.
That is just like in our lives, if you are not okay with your perspective in life, your emotions are disturbed, you have unhealthy self, maybe it is better to calm and wait for yourself to be renewed again, before you make others see the true beauty within you. Rather than to infect others with bad vibes or bad influence that can transfer to other people too.
How does a Personality developed?
First, we inherited this with our parents or what we call heredity or genes. There are two kinds of heredity one is aptitude and the other is ability. The aptitude is a pattern of traits needed for a particular task. The ability is the power to do the task. If the basis is only the aptitude, it does not mean that it has the ability to do a one thing.
An aptitude puts you into limitation of your ability, but if you had training and experience these can help you to determine on how far you will go with your abilities. We know that we learn from our family first, on how we speak, act or how to relate with others. In our culture, we have something we need to follow on how to interact with other people.
Second, in Personality, there are different origins. It is what we call primary groups. This is the intimate and face-to-face association and cooperation. These are our family, friends, neighbors or church mates. There are two kinds of these: the Assigned roles and the second one are the acquired roles.
Assigned Roles those we don’t have a choice. Example you are a male or a female. Your role in your family as eldest, second, or youngest child. Or what nationality you have.
While, Acquired Roles, are roles that we have a choice. These are the behaviors or traits that preferred such as ones’ habits.
Example you prefer a basketball rather than other sports because your own father is popular on this and a player of basketball. You can also say “I chose basketball because this is the popular of all sports”. This process brings you on how you are going to behave in front of other people which we call SOCIALIZATION. From our family to circle of friends it is heading to a bigger community like neighbors, classmates, in the school, or those people we socialize with.
The Personality Development continuous with SECONDARY GROUPS. There will come a time that from primary group you are moving towards to the secondary group. Most of the time our primary groups are close, warm, there is sympathy and sheltering influence. While on secondary group is cold, impersonal and usually is cruel and has competitive nature.
Example when the family moves from province to make the child enter high school or to leave the province and move to city to find a job. The individual who departs from their home or neighbors exposed himself in a much wider world being with strangers.
In a small world of a child, he was conditioned with what he was accustomed. In a much wider world, his personality is also developed because of the secondary group. He forced to question what he used to do. But what is important though he did not change because he remained faithful to what he was accustomed to do like habits, customs, and traditions of his family, neighborhood and community. But after that, after that he matured as a child in a secondary group, wherein he continues what he had learned in order to be more fit in the world he lives in.
SOCIAL AND CULTURAL FACTORS AFFECT PERSONALITY
Social Interaction means the way we relate to other people. This is a process on how we give and take that affects the behaviors of each other. The social interaction process is a clear way that explains how well you know and grow as yourself. The ability to know one self-started when you were still young together with the people that surrounds you.
SOCIAL ROLE
Pattern of behavior expected of one in any particular relationship with others. Wherein there is a big influence of the members of the family in your idea about yourself. While the child is growing, he has experiences and learned to behaved and respond to the customs, traditions with the people that surrounds him. Likewise with reactions when given praises and or being blamed.
CULTURE
The pattern of living of a group. All over the world, there is different ways of living and cultures of people. The culture was learned from our ancestors, wherein they trained the youth that was trained by adults or seniors. The culture helps to decide in our social roles. In addition to that, culture also sets the pattern of our behavior in your role that can be a student or as a child. You do not do a thing just to please others but because you are already expected that you know how to behave.
The goal of PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT is for you to be pleasant which will help you to achieve the success in your life. Remind yourself, you are going to be that better version of yourself. You have the power to direct to where you want to lead yourself. Used that power.
You’re becoming a better version of yourself, leading with personal power. Embrace it and keep growing.
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