“Cherished memories of life before marriage.”
I understand the importance of family and the sacrifices they make for the ones they love. Growing up in a Christian family, I was surrounded by relatives who dedicated themselves to serving the church. My aunts, uncles, and even my grandmother, who was a Christian educator, all played a significant role in nurturing my faith. While my mother initially pursued a path as a servant of the church like her siblings, she made a selfless decision to prioritize the needs of our family. She became a former publisher, using her skills to support her loved ones. As the oldest, she felt a responsibility to find ways to provide for our family, especially as many of us were pursuing our own education. The journey she embarked on was not an easy one, but it is a testament to her strength and determination to be there for her family.
I truly understand the challenges of growing up in a humble background. Despite our financial limitations, my family always emphasized the importance of discipline. We persevered and worked hard, with many of us even managing to graduate from college while juggling part-time jobs as students.
As the sole provider for my own family, I understand the immense responsibility of being the Breadwinner.
Being a breadwinner is a truly remarkable role. It means shouldering the responsibility of caring for your family and providing for their needs. You are the one who has the strength and compassion to support your loved ones and the unwavering determination to help them overcome challenges and rise above their circumstances.
Being a father means having the strength to be a pillar of support, even when you may feel vulnerable inside. It’s about always presenting your best self, even when it might be difficult.
Life is full of unexpected twists and difficult decisions. It takes courage to make bold choices and embark on new journeys. Despite uncertainty, I chose to give myself a chance to breathe and embrace a new chapter in my life by getting married. Although it wasn’t easy and both my family and I had concerns, we decided to create a new family together. Looking back, it was a daring decision that brought unexpected beauty.
I understand that we all have our own unique responsibilities and challenges in life. While I may have left behind many responsibilities, I acknowledge that everyone’s circumstances are different. This man I have married is fortunate to have a stable and supportive family provider.
I couldn’t be there for my own family, and I feel so guilty seeing them struggle without my support. They still need someone to rely on, but I wasn’t able to be that person because I prioritized my own family.
Life lesson.
No matter what, if you have the capacity, time, and other means to help your family, it can be incredibly rewarding to offer a helping hand. When you have the opportunity to support your loved ones, seize it with compassion and care. Remember, your family members are the pillars of support who will always be there for you, unwavering, even when the sun sets. So, if you can lend a hand, don’t hesitate to do so.
Revealing the essence of married life.
The challenges I faced during my single years have seamlessly carried over into my married life, demanding my utmost diligence and unwavering resolve.
I took upon myself the responsibility of providing for our basic needs, assuming the financial burden. Despite my deep care and understanding, I continued to carry this weight until it became overwhelming. In the pursuit of maintaining a harmonious life, I masked my own struggles, but eventually reached a breaking point.
I initially experienced a sense of contentment, until a profound revelation unveiled a hidden truth. Subsequently, a series of challenges ensued, compelling me to keep these revelations concealed from my family, solely to spare them undue concern.
In order to ensure a strong foundation for my married life, I had initially placed more emphasis on our emotional bond rather than considering financial aspects. However, as time passed, I realized that sustaining a healthy relationship requires a balance between emotional support and financial stability. It became evident that my initial beliefs and expectations were not always aligned with reality. Consequently, I have come to understand the importance of actively nurturing both the emotional and financial aspects of our partnership.
But then since I knew Jesus in my life, I stick around with the covenant I didn’t even think to find someone whom I can confide with. I just drew near to God.
Achieving Work-Life Balance as a Breadwinner for Your Family
TIME. HEALTH. WORK. PARTNER. GOD. RELATIONSHIPS. STUDENT. PART-TIME JOBS.
It wasn’t easy.
But God supported, protected, and blessed me. Well, I thought He was not there, but He is there for me to guide me. Due to hectic schedules, I couldn’t hear Him that much, and I got so burdened with my life because most of the time I carried it on my own strength. That is why it is bad. It is not good to carry it alone and without God.
I want you to know that God has always been by your side, supporting, protecting, and blessing you. Sometimes, we may feel like He is not there, but rest assured, He is always there to guide you through life’s challenges. It is understandable that with hectic schedules, it becomes difficult to fully hear and connect with Him, and as a result, we may bear the weight of our lives solely on our own shoulders. But remember, it can be overwhelming and burdensome to carry everything alone without God’s presence. It’s important to find solace in His guidance and support, allowing Him to lighten our load and guide us on the right path.
So, how can we manage to have a balanced life even if we are too busy? What should we prioritize? I came to realize these tips when I got separated, but especially during pandemic times. What is the secret to not getting burned out?
First, what do you really dreamed of?
Second, what should you prioritize?
Lastly, how do you manage your time? relationship?
First, in order to have what it takes to never give up on your goals, and have a sense of direction, you should know the reason why you are all doing this hard work, and why you are doing all for the best.
Having a clear vision of your dreams and aspirations is essential for creating a meaningful and fulfilled life. It’s understandable that sometimes we may encounter confusion and uncertainty along the way, causing delays in achieving our goals. However, it’s important to remember that everyone’s journey is unique, and it’s okay to take the necessary time to find clarity and make decisions that are right for you. Trust in your own judgement and have faith that you will eventually reach your destination.
When I faced various marital challenges involving family members, including in-laws, I had to learn how to navigate those relationships.
Second, prioritization is important.
One of this is ensuring your personal well-being. It encompasses a range of crucial aspects, such as maintaining good health, embracing a self-loving lifestyle, and nurturing your emotional, spiritual, mental, and physical states.
Having a balanced life is crucial for your well-being. It is important to prioritize your personal life as much as your professional obligations. By regularly assessing and reevaluating your priorities, you can ensure that you allocate adequate time and energy to both aspects of your life, promoting a healthier and more fulfilling lifestyle.
Certainly! Taking charge of your personal relationships and finances can greatly contribute to your overall well-being. By prioritizing self-care and ensuring sound financial management, you are setting a solid foundation for a fulfilling life. Remember, investing time and effort in these areas can lead to significant personal growth and happiness.
Having self-management skills is closely linked to the quality of your relationships. When you are able to effectively manage yourself, it positively impacts the way you interact and connect with others.
Don’t worry, mi Amore, I’ve got your back. Picture this: You’re the superhero of self-management, harnessing the incredible power that lies within you. Just remember, there’s no harm in asking for a little help, so why not join me for a free consultation and coaching session? Or if you prefer, you can stalk my social media updates and become part of our awesome community (blooming amore) where we spread love for ourselves and the big guy upstairs. So, buckle up, Mi Amore, and get ready for a wild adventure of self-improvement! Let’s do this! 🚀😄
